I really should change that title to "Why WE Love Blogging" because lezbehonest, we all do, or else we wouldn't be in this sphere together!
As my blog has started to grow lately, I've realized just how many awesome people are out there. The comments and emails for my posts are already making such an impact on my little heart. How does it feel to put yourself out there and have people be excited for what you shared, relating to what you're feeling? It's amazing! It's so easy to believe that you're alone in the way you think or feel about certain things. But having someone be like "me too!" makes you realize that we're not alone in this world and there are plenty of people by your side when you don't even know it. It's pretty cool. I love hearing about bloggers weekends, I love reading their funny dating stories, I love the truth they share in their hardships, I just love it all. It's truly a community.
But then there's the slightly "not so cool" part that I'm still struggling with... I've made a few posts that I will admit, when I was about to hit the "publish" button my little brainwaves were like "ehhh people are probably gonna think you're a bitch". But I've never really been one to care what people think about me so I hit it anyways. And then I think "well I must care a little if I even hesitated". And I don't want to offend anyone but at the same time I'm like, well it's MY mouth blog I can say what I want to! Then I realize... there is a battle in this blogging thing! When is it "too much"? When are you sharing too much? When are you being too offensive?
well, if Louis says it's ok...
I tend to be naturally offsensive, in the sense that - I have one of the most foul mouths you could ever hear, and I love it! Although I do curse in this blog, it's only a fraction of how much actually comes out of my mouth. Some people cringe at those words (no idea why) and I'd hate to have readers turn away because of it but then again I'm like "but it's mine". Does anyone else have this struggle with their blog? Feeling like you have to clean it up just a tad? Is anyone else struggling with "how many times can I say FUCK and SHIT in this post before it makes someone clicky click that red ex"?